In Response to the Assassination Attempt
As we’ve had a chance to ponder the horrific event that took place on Saturday, we’ve found we have some thoughts to share from the viewpoint of people who have gone through their own version of tragic circumstances and in our capacity as certified grief educators who are also followers of Jesus. We are responding to various things we’ve heard and seen in the news and social media.
God loves and values all life. We are grateful that former President Trump’s life was spared. However, in the same breath, we are deeply, deeply grieved that a man lost his life in the ultimate sacrifice of shielding his own family from death, and we are also deeply, deeply grieved over the death of a seemingly troubled young man who made a very poor, poor choice (he probably has a mother and father who are grieving his very complicated death). We are saddened for those who have been injured and those who may have been emotionally injured witnessing such a traumatic event first-hand. As Jesus’ followers, we are called to love and value all people – even if they believe differently than we do or make heartbreaking choices. Although we give God credit for every good gift, including the gift of life, perhaps we should also in the same breath, recognize that others lost their lives and that is a very sad thing. Sometimes leaving out that part, leads a griever to begin doubting their own faith: Why didn’t God save or protect my loved one? Did he or she not matter as much? Did God love this person more than my person? Am I not worthy of God’s intervention? Fellow believers, let’s be careful not to cause another believer who is facing tragic circumstances to doubt their faith. Yes, let’s be grateful for the gift of life because what a gift it is, but let’s also recognize that some didn’t get that gift because of the free will decision of another person and their families are deeply grieving today.
For our fellow grievers, we realize that this event could be incredibly activating and bring up your own grief. It’s okay to take a break from media. Please take care of your hearts. You are loved and valued. Your grief is valued. We invite you to take the time you need to attend to it in a healthy manner. If you need help, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us.
